If you can ask a hundred women what they want in a man. You will get a hundred different answers. So what are they saying? Do women know what they want? How can men give it to them if they don’t know themselves what they want.Â
Women want to be valued. There are hundreds of ways to value a women…so that she knows it.Â
- Talk to her
- Listento her
- Buy her things
- Hug her
- Wash the dishes
- Fix her car
- Make sure she has money
- Give her time to take a bath while you put the kids down to bed
- And the list goes on….Â
But she needs to know that she is valued by her husband above all else. Does that mean he is only concerned with her. NO! But in a world the degrades women every day, she needs to know that one place she wont be degraded, one place she has worth, one place she matters is in the eyes and heart of her husband.Â
Men if you want your wife to give you her blessing and be ready for you when you come back from fishing, hunting, playing ball, hanging out with them guys or whatever else you desire to do. Value her…Make sure she knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that if she needs or wants you that you will cancel everything and be there for her. Make sure she knows that there is nothing else you would rather be doing or anyplace you would rather be than with her. Once she is secure in that knowledge she will give her blessing to you for all other activities you desire.Â
Women want to know that they are of value to you. If no one else in the world values her opinion, if no one else knows she is there, a woman wants to know that her husband loves her and values her. Your wife wants to know that when she speaks you are listening…that you value her opinion and words. Even if you choose not to heed them, let her know that you are listening. Tell her you hear her. Make a point to let her know you understand what she said. If you don’t understand ask her. You can even tell her why you are going a different way. She may not be happy but she will respect you because she see that you valued her opinion.Â
And yes women your husband needs, desire and must have that respect. In a world that doesn’t respect men. Every father on tv today is portrayed as a brainless looser. Your husband needs your respect. He will value you more when you show him your respect. It is the opposite side of the same coin.Â
Sher Birmingham, wife to Bill. We have 7 children (ages 29 to 6 years old) plus 3 grandchildren (ages 5 to 1 years old). Encouraging moms that they can successfully run a business, school, and keep house at Home! If you enjoyed this article, please join my e-group http://groups.yahoo.com/group/fruitfully.Â